Fathers are supposed to represent strength, know all the answers, be the bread winners, and sometimes they have to impose discipline and dole out the punishment. That’s a tall order.
They have an equal partnership when it comes to raising a family. Their job is as challenging and tough as being a mom, – and it too can seem like a thankless job at times. A father is equally responsible for teaching and setting the example with morals and values and work ethic, career, sportsmanship, military service and so much more.
A father is supposed to toughen his children up so they can better handle adversity and he’s supposed to be the final arbiter; always fair and just.
I want to pay tribute to all the fathers who stay on as an active influence and role model in their children’s lives. Your role cannot be overstated . . . and it certainly cannot be replaced.
Your role inspires little leaguers and basketball players to try their best, your involvement motivates little ballerinas and girl scouts to reach for the sky, you being there for their first ‘ouchies’ and drying their tears makes them better, stronger and more beautiful. Your love and involvement makes them grow straighter and taller and makes for better neighborhoods; your words of wisdom and encouragement makes them more caring and compassionate teenagers; your love and support and example makes your children want to do better and it makes for a better and stronger society.
Personally, I pulled double duty and wore both hats – that of mother and father – and can honestly say I did not fulfill the dad role because I’m not a man. It’s simply not the same.
Fathers, thank you for all that you do to make this world a better place. Thank You for the quiet, self-sacrifice that you make day after day, year after year to rear emotionally healthy, loving, productive individuals. Your contribution is amazing.
I want to leave you all with this quote from the former president of the University of Notre Dame, who died earlier this year at the ripe old age of 97:
“The most important thing a father can do for
his children is to love their mother.”
Father Theodore Hesburgh
This quote may seem counterintuitive at first, but young boys will learn through example on how to treat a lady and live with and love a woman. Young girls will gauge the men later in their lives by this standard and hopefully settle for nothing less. Above all else, children will learn about the one thing the world needs more of – – Love.
Happy belated Father’s Day!!!! I love you dad and I appreciate all that you did for me growing up. Thanks for putting up!!
With much love and respect always, P.W.
Patricia Wenskunas
